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Relationship Tips: If you are going to meet your life partner for marriage, then keep these things in mind

If you are going to meet your life partner for marriage, then keep these things in mind
 
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The wedding day is very special for the boy as well as the girl. After this day, the life of both changes completely. Couples who have a love marriage, already know each other well, so they do not face much problem, the problem is faced by those who have an arranged marriage.

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Actually, in India even today, family members choose partners for their children. After getting the consent of the family, the bride and groom are given an opportunity to know each other before marriage. For this, they are introduced before confirming the engagement. During this, they try to know each other.

If you are also going to meet your future partner for the first time soon, then keep some things in mind. It may happen that a small negligence sours your relationship right in the beginning.

Don't pretend
It is normal to feel a little nervous at first when meeting your future partner for the first time, but try to be natural and in your true form. Don't pretend in any way and present yourself honestly. If the atmosphere is light-hearted, then laugh and joke, but keep in mind that it should be within limits. This will help both of you feel comfortable with each other.

Body language should be right
The first impression matters a lot. Wear simple and clean clothes. Take care of your personal hygiene. Talk in soft and lively language. Smiling and good body language can also make a good impression, but keep in mind not to be too overconfident.

Don't come under any pressure
If you are getting a chance to meet your partner before marriage, then try to feel comfortable and relaxed. Along with this, also pay attention to the sensitivity of the other person. Do ask them whether they are saying yes to marriage under any pressure. Do not rush to make any big decision regarding marriage, and try to know each other without any pressure.

Listen to your partner
The time of conversation is to understand the thoughts, feelings, and views of both. So listen to your partner carefully and try to understand. This helps in strengthening the foundation of the relationship.

The way of asking questions should be right
Be polite and careful while asking questions during the meeting. Do not ask such questions that make the partner feel uncomfortable. You can start with general things like about their hobbies, family, education, or career. Never ask personal questions at the very first time. Even if you like your partner, it is better to remain calm and composed.

Respect the boundaries
Everyone has their own personal boundaries. In such a situation, during the first meeting, respect the boundaries of the partner and do not violate them under any circumstances. If the partner does not want to talk about any topic, then respect it. Before marriage, it is important to know what your views are on important aspects of life—career, views on children, lifestyle, religion, and family responsibilities. This will help you understand if your views match.