Anita's mother had come from the village after many years. The children were very happy to see their grandmother, but as soon as Vanya sat on her lap, Shobhit pulled her hair. Vanya started crying, but Shobhit did not stop. Seeing the mischief of both the children, Anita said, "Mother, I am fed up with them. Shobhit beats Vanya every day. No matter how much I try to explain, there is no improvement." Hearing her daughter's words, the mother said, "Daughter, first you have to understand Shobhit yourself and then explain to him, only then the problem will be solved."

Lack of understanding

Many times mothers beat their children when they make a mistake. Fathers also scold them in anger. A small child lacks understanding. He feels that this is the only way to express anger, disappointment, and dissatisfaction, so he resorts to quarreling and beating to express his feelings physically instead of words. In such a situation, you should communicate openly with him to bring about a change in his behavior.

Attention seeking

Children also fight with their siblings or friends to get their parent's attention. This happens especially when they feel that they are not getting equal love and time. This feeling makes them feel insecure and neglected and they become aggressive. So pay equal attention to both the children. If your second child is very young, then try to give some time to the elder one after putting him to sleep.

Excessive leniency

Many times, the child hits the younger brother or sister when he does not find the parents around. You do not pay much attention to this, due to which he keeps doing this. The negligence or excessive leniency of the parents plays an important role in making the child aggressive, so stop the child immediately if this happens.

Competition and jealousy

Parents often increase the feeling of competition and jealousy among children. They start comparing children with each other, due to which not only does the love between siblings end, but they spend most of their time fighting. But this hurts their future. Therefore, try not to compare both the children and try to increase love and understanding between them.

Digital medium

If your child watches excessively violent video games, cartoons, or films, then these hurt him. By watching such content, children start considering violence as normal. Apart from this, if the atmosphere at home is stressful and aggressive, then also they become quarrelsome. Therefore, creates a positive atmosphere at home and keeps them away from violent content.

Listen to him with patience.

Child psychologist Dr. Anjali Gupta says, when fights between siblings increase beyond limits, then there are many reasons behind it, such as rivalry, feelings of insecurity, lack of praise, respect, criticism or comparison between siblings by parents or physical and emotional unavailability of parents. It is important to resolve this in time, otherwise it makes children aggressive. They make themselves emotionally unbalanced, erratic, impulsive, and aggressive. It is the responsibility of parents to adopt a sympathetic approach and listen to children patiently to help them overcome difficult emotions. Assure them that they are no less than other siblings.

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