Aamir Khan's daughter Ira Khan said in an interview that the relationship between parents and children is complicated. She said that just like it takes hard work to make a marriage successful, similarly a child should also work hard to strengthen his relationship with his parents but no one tells her about it. Ira has gone through depression. She said that when her therapist asked her what her parents were like, she could not answer because she had seen her parents only as parents. She never paid attention to what kind of person they were, and what are their likes and dislikes. It often happens that children make their parents agree to everything they say, but do not know how to make a good relationship with them. The biggest problem occurs when they enter their teens and become so grown up that they start distancing themselves from their parents. Parents are also human beings.

When the relationship between parents and children is discussed, all the responsibility is put on the shoulders of the parents. This is also right because parents have seen more of the world than their children. It is the duty of the parents to give a good upbringing and all facilities to the child but in the meantime, there is a great need to explain to the growing children that parents are also human beings, they also have their own life and they can also make mistakes. Ira said in the interview that a child does not give his parents the right to make mistakes. Children need to be explained in their teenage itself that their parents have their personality. Children ask for clothes every month but they would hardly have thought how many clothes their parents would have bought for themselves in a year.

Things will be settled by giving respect.
Parenting expert Dr. Geetanjali Sharma says that the counselors of the child are their parents and only they can explain to them how to behave with the parents. Parents can never become friends with children but they can become mentors. When the child reaches his teens, a positive relationship cannot be built by imposing things on him or giving orders. A strong connection between them is formed only by giving respect. Parents should strengthen the bond by giving respect to children. When there is respect in the relationship, there is comfort between both. Parents and children can easily share their thoughts, feelings, and problems. This makes neither children nor parents afraid of being judged.

Be present with the child on every occasion.

Whether it is a parent-teacher meeting or an annual function, parents should be present with their child at every small and big event. The child needs to realize how important the child is for both parents. Often fathers ignore the childhood of the child due to being busy with work, for which they have to pay when the child grows up. Both mother and father are the most important for the child, so stand with them on every occasion from childhood to youth. This gives moral support to the child and he stays close to his parents. When parents and children are connected, they listen to each other. This makes parents understand their child and the child understands his parents as a human being.

Spend time with family.
The family that eats together or goes on a holiday together once a year, their family members have better bonding than others. Spending time with family strengthens their relationship. All this is very important for parents. For the child too, the time of parents is no less than a gift. Apart from this, children should be hugged from time to time and they should be praised for doing good work so that they can be motivated.

Professional life should be shared.
Doing a job or business is not easy. Parents often hide the stress of workload from children. Many times, as soon as the salary comes, all the money is spent on household items and children's education. Only parents know how difficult it is to spend an entire month without money. Therefore, it is not right to hide the situation at home from teenage children. Every day at the dinner table, parents should talk to them about their professional lives. They should tell them what problems they are facing. How much stress the workload gives them? Also, teach children the lesson of money management so that they do not feel that their demands are being ignored.

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