We often see that some children mingle with everyone as soon as they enter the playground, while others stand on the sidelines and watch others play. These childhood experiences shape their future personalities.

Making friends is crucial for a child's social life, but if a child prefers to be alone or is hesitant to make friends, it can be a cause for concern for parents. Let's understand the reasons behind this and how parents can help their child.

Why do children find it difficult to make friends?

Shyness - Some children are naturally introverted. They feel scared or nervous about starting conversations with new people.

Social anxiety - Sometimes a child fears whether other children will like them or whether they will be made fun of.

Lack of social skills - Some children don't understand how to start a conversation, wait their turn, or share toys with others.

The Impact of Change - Moving home or going to a new school can also make a child feel lonely, as old friends are left behind.

How can you help as a parent?

Role-play at home - Children often learn through practice. Create a playful situation at home. Say, "I'm the new kid. How would you like to be friends with me?" Teach them how to say hello or ask to join a game.

Organize small playdates - A child may feel nervous being around a large group of children at once. Start by inviting one or two children over. A small group makes them feel more secure and comfortable.

Encourage their hobbies - If your child enjoys painting, skating, or music, send them to a class where they have other children of their interest. Common interests make friendships easier.

Understand their feelings - Never pressure a child into friendships. Don't ask them, "Why are you so quiet?" Instead, talk to them about why they're afraid to talk to new people. Listen to them and reassure them that you're there for them.

Be an example of good social behavior - Children learn by watching you. When you talk to neighbors or strangers politely and with a smile, your child unconsciously picks up on the same qualities. These qualities help them make friends.

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