In our country, the bond of marriage holds great importance. It not only binds a boy and a girl in a relationship, but many other relationships also get a name. However, what should be done when these relationships become more of an obstacle than a convenience for the married couple? Marriage is not just the name of some rituals performed between two people. In this, two families also come together and try to live with each other.

Amidst these efforts, many times the advice given to the newly married couple does them harm instead of doing them good. Such advice is mostly given by their parents, which creates a storm in the life of the married couple. Should every such advice be implemented? What should be the role of parents? Let us understand in a little detail:

Parents should know

Many times parents feel that since they have raised their children, they have the right to every decision of their life. This also includes marriage and life after that. If the parents interfere too much in a new marriage, the couple starts judging each other on the same parameters. They do not get a chance to bond. If parents have to give some advice to their married children, then they should know when to speak and when to stop.

If the life partner is not of their choice

Many times it is seen that if the parents do not like the choice of their daughter or son, then they bring up the shortcomings of their partner on some pretext or the other. By doing this, your child can get into a dilemma as to whom to go to.

For them, they are just children.

The children grow up and get married, but the parents are not ready to accept that their children have grown up. They feel that their children still need their support or advice at every step. In this situation, their children are unable to understand their responsibilities, and problems start coming in their married life.

Parents are unhappy with their married life

Parents who have had problems in their own married life do not have a good opinion about marriage. Especially women who have lived an unhappy married life are not able to give positive advice to their children. They also try to impose their experiences on them. In such a situation, their children's married life is affected very badly, and sometimes it even leads to divorce.

What should children do?

Naturally, children take advice from their elders in important decisions related to life. But children should know on which issues they should take advice from them and which not.

After marriage, sharing every small and big thing with parents can also cause problems. So avoid sharing everything, talk only about what is important.

As an adult, you know how to take care of your physical and emotional health. Support your partner in every small and big need and avoid taking too much help from anyone else.

If everyone is saying the same thing

It has been seen many times that children consider even the good advice of parents as interference and ignore visible things. If many family members or your close friends are giving the same opinion about your partner or your married life, then pay attention to their words once.

The court had also expressed concern

A few years ago, the Delhi High Court had said that the interference of parents in the lives of married daughters is causing discord in their lives. The court said that a major reason for the increasing cases of rift in marriages is the constant interference of parents in the married life of their daughters.

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