Parenting Tips: Many parents complain that their child doesn't study well. Despite their best efforts, their child doesn't concentrate. If this is happening to you, this article may be helpful. Renowned parenting coach Riddhi Deorha shared a post on her Instagram handle. In this post, the expert offers some special tips. Riddhi Deorha says that by following these tips, you can increase your child's interest in studies. Let's find out how:
What should be done if your child doesn't study?
Number 1 - Understand the reason.
The parenting coach says that talking angrily can make the child more irritable. Therefore, first act calmly and talk to the child to find out the reason. In most cases, the child's inability to study properly is due to stress, pressure, fear, or boredom. In such a situation, ask your child questions. You might ask, "I noticed you're studying less lately. I'm not angry, I'm just worried." "Can we talk about this a little bit?"
Riddhi explains that such conversations make the child feel safe and understood. You also get to understand the reason for not studying.
Number 2 - Ask the child some general questions
Ask the child questions that can bring out what's on their mind. Such as:
What is the most difficult thing right now?
When do you feel most like studying?
Do you find school helpful or just a burden?
These questions often reveal the problem. The child may not be studying because they are bored, have a fear, are stressed by their friends, are sleep deprived, or are unable to concentrate.
Number 3 - Set small goals
Create a timetable for the child with small periods of time. For example, on the first day, you might teach a subject for only 20 minutes. Then, on the second day, teach the child for a short time and ask questions related to studies. These small steps build confidence in the child.
Number 4 - Adopt Short Study Sessions
Teens learn best in short, focused study blocks. For example, study for 25 minutes, then give a 5-minute break. Or study for 45 minutes, then give a 15-minute break.
Number 5 - Teach Simple Study Skills
Help your child engage in active recall. For example, close your book and ask yourself three questions.
Have your child explain a topic in two minutes, then conduct a spaced review.
Number 6 - Create a Study-Friendly Space
Designate a study area for your child. This area should be clean and well-lit, well-stocked, and equipped with water, a timer, and necessary supplies. This increases their focus. Gradually, they will begin to sit down and study on their own.
Number 7 - Stop Shaming, Offer Small Rewards
If your child studies for even 25 minutes, praise them. You can offer small rewards, such as giving them a snack or taking them on a short walk.
Number 8 - What to do if the child completely refuses?
If the child still isn't able to study, sit with them and start reading a book.
Give the child the option: "Will you study for 25 minutes now or an hour later?"
What not to do?
Never compare your child to another child.
Don't embarrass, threaten, or scold them for not studying.
Don't put pressure on your child solely for marks.
Apart from all this, don't try to control every minute.
Parenting coaches say that when a child feels safe and supported, they automatically become interested in studying. A calm and understanding attitude from parents makes the biggest difference in a child's behavior.
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