Parenting Tips: For parents, it can be distressing when young children pull hair, bite, or pinch. Sometimes, seeing this behavior makes parents anxious, and they worry that their child is becoming too stubborn or disobedient. However, experts believe that at this age, such behavior is not a bad habit or rudeness, but rather a part of the child's brain development.

Why do children do this?
Toddlers, aged 1 to 3 years, are unable to express their emotions in words. Their brains are still learning that touching, pulling, or biting can cause pain to others. Sometimes, they do this simply to see what kind of reaction they get from you. It's a kind of experiment and game for them; they don't do it to intentionally hurt anyone.

What should parents expect?

At this stage, expecting children to immediately obey you is unrealistic. Impulse control, the ability to restrain oneself, develops gradually over the years. Therefore, repeated explanations, patience, and consistent responses are crucial.

How to avoid reacting negatively?

When a child bites or pulls your hair and you yell loudly, the child may perceive this as an interesting reaction. This can encourage them to repeat the behavior. It's better to say "Ouch" or "No" in a calm but firm voice and gently remove their hand or mouth. Also, explain in simple terms that it hurts.

Positive redirection is the right approach.

Instead of simply saying "no," giving the child a safe alternative is more effective. If the child bites, give them a teether to chew on. If they pull hair, say, "We use our hands for loving," and redirect them to hugging or playing with a toy. Changing the environment, such as moving to another room, also helps distract them.

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