Parenting: These 7 signs show that you are spoiling your child yourself, if you do not correct it then you will be left rubbing your hands..
- byShikha Srivastava
- 12 Apr, 2025

Parenting is a very challenging journey, but still, every parent wants to fulfill all the needs and desires of their child. Parents try their best to show the right path to their children. But sometimes in the desire for love and security (Parenting mistakes), they inadvertently start spoiling them.
If pampering increases more than necessary, it can become a cause of trouble. It also affects your child's future. Therefore, if your child's behavior (Spoiled child behavior) is worrying, then some of your habits may be responsible for it. Let us know 7 such signs (Unintentional bad parenting), which show that you are spoiling your child.

Fulfilling every small and big need
If you fulfill every demand of the child without any limit, then he can become stubborn and dissatisfied. Make children used to hearing "no", so that they can be prepared for the challenges of life.
Always protecting the child instead of scolding him for his mistakes
If the child does something wrong and instead of punishing him, you start making excuses, then he will not learn to take responsibility. Let him face the consequences of his mistakes so that he can understand the difference between right and wrong.
Praising him too much in front of others
Praising the child excessively for every small achievement can make him arrogant. Praise the child to boost his morale, but set a limit to it. Also, teach him that it is important to be humble.
Comparing him with other children
Sentences like "Your friend is so good, why can't you?" break the child's confidence. Every child is different, recognize his qualities and accept him as he is.
Controlling him all the time
If you keep an eye on every step of the child and do not let him make his own decisions, then he will not be able to become self-reliant. Give him some freedom, so that he can learn from his experiences.
Emotional blackmail
Sentences like "If you do this, I will fall ill" or "My health deteriorates because of you" put the wrong pressure on the child. This makes him feel guilty and he may become mentally weak.

Lack of discipline
If you do not ask your child to sleep, study, or work on time, he may become lazy and undisciplined. Help him make a timetable so that he can maintain balance in life and learn the value of time.
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