'Anger is our biggest enemy', you must have heard this sentence many times. But still, in anger, we lose our temper and say nonsense things. But before this, we should stop and think about what effect it is having on the mind of the other person (Parenting Tips). Especially if it is about children.

Parenting is a very responsible and challenging job. Parents have to be strict many times to show the right path to the children, but sometimes in anger, we say such things which leave a deep shock on the minds of the children. There are some things which children do not forget for their whole life. Let us know such 5 things (Never Say 5 Things to Child), which should not be said to children even in anger.

"You will not be able to do anything!"

Many times when children are not able to do any work properly or they make a mistake, then the parents say in anger, "You will not be able to do anything!" This sentence breaks the confidence of the child. He starts feeling that he is not capable of doing any work. Instead, motivate him and say, "You can do better, I trust you."

"You always do it wrong!"

Children learn only by making mistakes, but if you repeatedly tell them that "You always do it wrong!", then they will start considering themselves as failures. This breaks their courage and they start getting scared of trying new things. It would be better if you help them correct their mistakes and say, "Be careful next time, you can do it better."

"My life got spoiled because of you!"

Sometimes under stress, parents say such things to children that make them feel burdened. Sentences like "My life got spoiled because of you!" put the child in guilt and he starts blaming himself. This is harmful to his mental health. Instead, express your feelings calmly and explain to the child that both of you can solve every problem together.

"Other children are better than you!"

Every child is different and has his qualities. When you compare him with others and say, "Other children are better than you!", it lowers his self-esteem. He starts considering himself inferior and becomes jealous of others. Instead, praise his good qualities and tell him that every person has something special.

"I will leave you!"

Children are most afraid of their parents getting separated. The sentence "I will leave you!" said in anger creates insecurity in their mind. He always starts living in the fear that his parents may leave him. This can disturb his mental balance. To make the child feel safe, tell him that you are always with him, no matter what happens.

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