Some children like going to school and some like it less. But, some children start crying a lot before going to school every day. Often, seeing the child crying like this, parents think that perhaps the child is not well and that is why they do not send them to school. On the other hand, seeing the children crying repeatedly, parents are unable to understand why their child does not like going to school and why he starts crying before going to school.

Going to school makes some children feel anxious. Such children are unable to enjoy the school environment and they start missing their parents. There can be many reasons for this, which work to awaken negative feelings in the child's mind. In such a situation, the parents need to try to understand the problems of their child and take measures to overcome those problems.

Understand the cause of the problem.

Parents should first talk to the child so that it will be easy for them to understand the root of the problem. Find out what the child is afraid of. Also, find out how the child behaves in the class, how the other children are in the class, and what is the atmosphere on the school bus. Based on all this information, you will be able to understand why your child is not able to adjust to school.

Give courage and also praise

Give the child the courage to move forward from his fear and make him feel that he will deal with his problems himself and will make friends etc. in school. If he is doing anything good in school, talking to people, making friends, then appreciate him. Doing this will give him courage.

Do not put pressure on the child.

Parents should not try to send their children to school by scolding or threatening them because this will make them even more scared. Win the child's trust and explain to him why going to school is important for his development. Encourage the child to face the situation and go to school.

Ask about school

Initially, go to pick up and drop the children to school yourself. Talk to them about school every day. Even if something goes wrong, explain it to them lovingly. Talk about positively improving your shortcomings and mistakes. Maintain communication with the teacher, but avoid talking to them in front of the children.

Take help from a doctor.

Many times children feel some kind of pain or discomfort but are unable to tell their parents. Especially very young children have a lot of trouble when they have a stomach ache, ear pain or feel cold due to sitting in an AC classroom and they are unable to tell. At the same time, for some children, sitting in classrooms for a long time can also cause problems like stomach aches or vomiting. Therefore, pay attention to the changes in your child's behavior, and regularly check whether the child is having any problems like stomach ache pain in the legs, or growing pain. To give relief to the child from the pain, talk to the doctor and give medicines to the children as per their advice and take care of them.

Keep a positive feeling on your face.

Assure the child that you know that he can deal with his problems in school in a better way. Stay calm and avoid scolding or beating.

Working parents must make this thing clear.

Before the school opens and after admission, tell the children what kind of changes will come in life when the child starts going to school. It is possible that the child has to wake up early to go to school, stay in a daycare center after school or a nanny or a nanny may be called at home to take care of him. Explain to the child that after school is over, mummy or papa will come to pick him up and after that, the child can stay at home and play or spend quality time with the family.

Remove the fear of separation.

Never make the child feel that he is being sent to school to distance himself from himself. It would be better if you encouraged him and told him about the good things about school. If the child is crying, do not compare him with other children. This creates more fear in his mind that his parents do not like him. He loses his self-confidence even more.

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