Every parent has only one wish: that their children be the happiest and most successful in the world. We try our best to make this happen, but sometimes, unknowingly, we adopt certain habits (toxic parenting habits) that negatively impact our children's mental development and happiness. Yes, if you truly want your child to become a well-adjusted and happy individual, it's wise to say goodbye to the following five habits today.

Comparing them to others
"Look how smart Sharma's son is!" or "Your friend got better grades than you" – these statements are very common in Indian households. We think this will motivate the child, but the opposite is true. Comparisons hurt a child's self-confidence and make them feel like they are "not good enough." Remember, every flower blooms at its own time; don't compare your child to anyone else.

Imposing your will on them
Sometimes we want to fulfill our unfulfilled dreams through our children. "I couldn't become a doctor, so you have to" – this mindset puts a heavy burden on the child. When children can't choose their own careers or hobbies, they remain dissatisfied throughout their lives. Guide them, but let them choose their own path.

Ignoring their feelings
If a child is crying or sad, telling them "Boys don't cry" or "Don't make a fuss over such a small thing" is very wrong. This teaches children to suppress their emotions. If they are sad, listen to them. Make them feel that you are there for them, no matter the situation.

Expecting them to be 'perfect.'
Do you want your child to be number one in everything – studies, sports, and extracurricular activities? If so, know that this race for perfection fills children with stress. Let them make mistakes. Humans learn from their mistakes. Teach them to be "tryers" instead of striving for "perfection."

Too much control
Interfering in every little thing your child does or catching them before they even fall makes them weak. If you're always shielding them, how will they learn to face the world? Give them a chance to fight their own battles so they can become independent.

Parenting isn't about dictating; it's about nurturing, like a gardener tending to a plant. If we let go of these small negative habits, our children will not only be successful but will also lead happy and stress-free lives.

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