Signs of Bad Parenting in Children: Parenting is truly like a roller coaster. Sometimes it feels like everything is going perfectly, the child is settled, and the routine is set. And then one day it feels like the little member of the house has become the boss. Children change in an instant, and sometimes we only understand these small changes when things start to get out of hand. If you ever feel that your child is becoming too demanding, that drama is increasing with every little thing, or that arguments start over trivial matters, these are signs that shouldn't be ignored. Let's understand which symptoms indicate that a change in parenting is necessary.

1. When the child starts to perceive every limit as a ‘personal attack.’
Let's say you say, "No screen time right now," or "You won't get this toy right now," or "Wait a little," and the child immediately starts crying, shouting, or getting angry. Some parents even stop correcting their children out of fear that the child will get angry again.

This happens when the child is not stopped or given any boundaries for a long time. They get used to the idea that if they push, cry, or throw a tantrum, the decisions will change. Therefore, even a small restriction seems like a big deal to them. In such cases, the child starts to perceive every "no" as an attack on themselves, and the home environment becomes unstable.

2. Not valuing things
Another major sign is getting bored with gifts immediately, not even saying thank you, or creating drama over small things. The child starts to believe that good things will come to them anyway, whether they work for them or not.

Such children consider even small household chores as 'optional,' such as picking up toys, putting away their bags, or doing homework. They feel that all this is up to their will, whereas a sense of responsibility is very important.

Often, this habit develops when parents do everything for their convenience. As a result, the child starts to think that everything in the house happens "automatically." Then, their interest in things that require effort begins to wane, whether it's studying, maintaining friendships, or school projects.

3. The child starts lying about small things
If a child starts making excuses for everything or hiding the truth, it could be a sign that the home environment is too strict or that they don't feel comfortable expressing themselves openly. In such cases, the child needs understanding, not intimidation.

This doesn't mean you're a bad parent.
Most importantly, these signs don't mean you're a bad parent. It simply means you're noticing things and want to improve them. That's what real parenting is all about.

Remember that children need some discipline and clear boundaries. They need both love and firmness. If you consistently pay attention to these things, positive changes will follow. Balance is key.

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