What should the son do if the father hits the mother: Married life can be successful and happy only when there is a good understanding between husband and wife. If there is respect for each other, love, honesty, mutual consent, helping each other in household chores, solving any issue together, not having one's way, etc. in a true married relationship, then life can be spent with peace and love. But, in many houses, there are fights between husband and wife every day. Both live together but do as they please. Leave aside talking to each other, they do not even want to see each other. It is better to separate than to be tied in such a relationship.
Some husbands beat their wives after drinking alcohol. They misbehave with them. They keep maids in the house. In such a situation, a woman lives a suffocated life and bears everything silently. For the sake of children, a mother often bears all the tortures of her husband silently. If the children are small, they cannot do anything to improve the relationship between their parents, but when the son and daughter are grown up, what should they do in such a situation? Should a son tolerate this indecent behavior of his father? Should he go against his father and protect his mother?
If the father behaves indecently with the mother, what should the son do?
Premanand Ji Maharaj answers a question asked by a son in one of his meetings. In this, a 28-year-old boy asks him if my father beats my mother a lot. He behaves indecently. What should he do in such a situation? Whom should he support?
On this, Premanand Ji Maharaj says that this demonic behavior of a husband with his wife is not right at any cost. If there is a wife, it is okay to say a few bitter words sometimes, but this does not mean that anyone should treat his wife like an animal. Beat her. In such a situation, a son should support his mother. The demonic nature of the father should not be tolerated.
He says that the mother is first, and the father is second. Mother is the first Guru, father is the second. Protect your mother, if your father's conduct is against religion, you should never support him. One day he will have to face the consequences of his deeds. Be on your mother's side, serve her, support her, it was fine when you were a child, but now you are grown up.
The boy further says I am now 28 years old and one day after seeing all this, I replied to my father now stop. On this Premanand Ji Maharaj says that you did right. She is your mother. It was fine when you were a child, but now you are grown up, you should support your mother. If your mother also does not want to live with such a person, then this matter has already been decided in your favor (son's favor). Serve your mother.
The boy further says that I wants the father should also be served and mother should also be served. Then Maharaj says that it is a good thing that you want to serve both. In such a situation, when the father is old and unwell, you should bring him home and take care of him. But, how will this be possible if he behaves so indecently? You should support the mother. As long as the father behaves demonically, a young son should never tolerate indecent behavior towards his mother.
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