Premanand Maharaj: Many things in our society have changed over time, but some mindsets remain the same as they were decades ago. In particular, the stereotypes surrounding daughters and sons are still deeply ingrained in many households. People have gained education, employment opportunities, and lifestyles have seen significant changes, but it still takes time to change the mindset about whether a son is necessary to complete a family. This mindset leaves many women and families living under mental stress.

Sometimes, relatives taunt, others question, and sometimes, women themselves feel burdened by the thought that without a son, the family's name, honor, or future will remain incomplete. A woman recently approached Vrindavan's renowned saint, Premanand Maharaj, with a similar concern. She brought not her own problem, but a belief that still pervades many households: "I have two daughters... I want a son now." Her question reflected not just her desire, but a mindset that privileges sons and undervalues ​​daughters. But this woman received an answer that not only shook her mind but also served as a lesson for all those who still consider sons the foundation of a family.

The most significant aspect of this entire incident is that Maharaj not only responded but also voiced the sentiments surrounding the existence and dignity of daughters. Let's understand the full context of this matter and what his response contained that every family should hear.

I have two daughters, now I want a son, a woman's words
A video shows a woman approaching Premananda Maharaj and directly saying, "Maharaj, I have two daughters... now I want a son." There was hope and a slight worry in her voice, as if something would remain incomplete if she didn't have a son.

Upon hearing this, Maharaj smiled and asked, "Why? Why is a son necessary? What is so special about a son?" This question may seem straightforward, but it was actually an attack on the societal mindset we've carried for generations.

Why only a son?
Maharaj said that when a daughter can also bring honor to a family, run a household, and bring glory to her parents, then why is a son considered essential?
He also reminded us that our country's President is also a daughter, and today, daughters are excelling in every field—be it sports, education, or leadership.
This makes it clear that a child's ability doesn't depend on their gender, but on their values ​​and hard work.

Why the disparaging attitude toward daughters?
Maharaj also highlighted the serious problem that in many homes, the birth of a daughter is still met with dismay. Many people consider aborting the child even when it's still a girl child.
He asked, "Why? Why the sadness at having a daughter? Isn't she a child, isn't she a human being?"
This question was not just directed at women, but at a society that has yet to bridge this gap.

Give your daughter a good upbringing; she will become your strength.
Maharaj said that if the child is a daughter, give her the same love and guidance as you would a son. Educate her, give her opportunities to progress, and support her in fulfilling her dreams.

If you provide her with trust, understanding, and the right environment, that daughter can become your greatest strength in old age.

Many families are slow to understand that a child's respect and worth are determined by their qualities, not by whether they are a girl or a boy.

"Today, many sons beat their parents."

Maharaj also shared a harsh but true reality. He said that today, many cases of sons mistreating their own parents are reported. Some hurt them with taunts, while others go so far as to raise their hands.

Then the question is, if having a son guaranteed respect and security, why would these incidents occur?
That's why he said, "The child should be the one who excels, not his or her gender."
Mothers and sisters are not left behind in any field.
Maharaj concluded with great clarity that today's daughters are moving forward with strong steps in every field. Whether it's education or employment, art or the military, women are making their mark everywhere.
If a son turns out to be bad, even his existence becomes a burden, but if a daughter is well-mannered, she becomes the support of the family.

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